The title itself remarks a quest. Guess who's that? Villain is not only cause by external force it may also be cause by internal force. The human being are villain and good friend for them self.
Let's talk about Mr. Villain first, none other than MR. EGO ! It's not that ego is always bad. Most of the time, ego is one of the element being a driving factor for our success path... regardless what is our ambition. Ego is neither bad or good...
I,ve seen number of people achieving their objectives once they do use ego in a proper manner... However, what is always happening is that we are facing so egoistic people most of the days that might end of the day actually cheat them self. As I say ego neither good or bad but ego but if you just listen to the villain without listening to your sweetheart then is when we tend to do mistakes. We can always learn and rectify our mistakes but the words that utter is always as sharp as the sword.
I admit that I do also make mistakes sometimes even terrible one. The most important thing is that not to cover what we did if it is wrong but actually to see and review the mistake that we had committed hence to reflect from it.
We are born not actually to fight with others... the most important person that we should fight about is our internal ego. Ego is always the villain that comes out when you are in a challenged situation. Sometimes his help made life so easy as we tend to hurt people's feelings by throwing out nonsense without concern.
This sweet villain manipulate our feeling. To protect our self we tend to pass on lies, give excuses, etc... just for one reason of being and showing "I'M THE BIG BOSS" !
However just after a couple of day, just that the same incident happen is to your pal... what will be your reaction? I am pretty sure we will come out with thousands of answers on how to deal the situation but this is because we are thinking on the other one's shoe. Hence, definitely an argument can be resolved is we never give an ear to the sweet villain. This villain is very smart of course right he is a villain!. He will continue to uphold you to continue with the mess and sometimes u'll be staying with this mess just because u don't really want to say the magic word "SORRY"!
Therefore, always keep in mind that, when u're tensed up just remind the Sweet Villain not to disturb you and listen to your Sweet Heart to make a good decision. Allow me to use this portal to seek forgiveness in case if I do have hurt your feelings in any manner. Thousand apologies... as I am also a human.
MY SWEETOS JOURNAL
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Saturday, November 27, 2010
May You Teach and Prosper Millions
Teaching is always a wonderful profession. You have the Master Skills as a teacher but slowly the transformation process begin. One after another information is input into the students mind regardless or soft skills, hands on training, lecturing or even ABC...
The transformation process is so interesting, from an empty box u just need to feed in till the box is full. End of the day, when the student scored and comes back with a good result the satisfaction basis is always there... the feeling of fulfillment is there... remarks me the Buddha's teaching of contentment... u fill so satisfied and unexplainable by dollar's and cents.
Teaching in different fields gives a different experience even though all is about teaching. By God's grace I thank him as I am experienced from the toddlers to the super dubber mammals. The most amazing and unforgetful memories of mine is teaching the toddlers... tiny fingers, sweet n cute faces, pure heart, innocent looks tackles me always. They are just indescribables in their own words.... but whenever they did a mistake they will just seek for forgiveness without shame and the next moment they are just back to basis.. This always amaze me and i do wonder that can be the same.... can i react the same... can I...
Teaching primary is almost same as toddlers dealing while it is thoroughly different with secondary's orelse high school. Moving to the next arena is teaching youngsters.. beautiful young ladies and handsome looking pals.... is more like treating a friends of your own. However, there are times that you need to lay your line to ensure they can get the best and did not make a fool of them self. The next upcoming is with the eldest and peer teaching... in contrast not the same at all...
You can just mark even a single line rather than you do know where do you have quote that from orelse definitely you are in hell... lolx...
However... teaching this sample is not always bad... you also tend to learn wonderful things as they are experienced daddy's, mummy's, uncle, aunt...etc.. The bond of relationship is important always. Once it is there.. hence they will be your great friends. Vice Versa even we perhaps be their guide, philosopher, teacher and well wisher. Basically all this happen miracle sly.... by God's Grace..
Hence, I always feel teaching as a sharing of knowledge.... God's watching the transformation and gracing our lives with contentment.... May You Teach and Prosper Millions ...
The transformation process is so interesting, from an empty box u just need to feed in till the box is full. End of the day, when the student scored and comes back with a good result the satisfaction basis is always there... the feeling of fulfillment is there... remarks me the Buddha's teaching of contentment... u fill so satisfied and unexplainable by dollar's and cents.
Teaching in different fields gives a different experience even though all is about teaching. By God's grace I thank him as I am experienced from the toddlers to the super dubber mammals. The most amazing and unforgetful memories of mine is teaching the toddlers... tiny fingers, sweet n cute faces, pure heart, innocent looks tackles me always. They are just indescribables in their own words.... but whenever they did a mistake they will just seek for forgiveness without shame and the next moment they are just back to basis.. This always amaze me and i do wonder that can be the same.... can i react the same... can I...
Teaching primary is almost same as toddlers dealing while it is thoroughly different with secondary's orelse high school. Moving to the next arena is teaching youngsters.. beautiful young ladies and handsome looking pals.... is more like treating a friends of your own. However, there are times that you need to lay your line to ensure they can get the best and did not make a fool of them self. The next upcoming is with the eldest and peer teaching... in contrast not the same at all...
Workshop and Training of Pathway Guidance to high school student |
However... teaching this sample is not always bad... you also tend to learn wonderful things as they are experienced daddy's, mummy's, uncle, aunt...etc.. The bond of relationship is important always. Once it is there.. hence they will be your great friends. Vice Versa even we perhaps be their guide, philosopher, teacher and well wisher. Basically all this happen miracle sly.... by God's Grace..
Hence, I always feel teaching as a sharing of knowledge.... God's watching the transformation and gracing our lives with contentment.... May You Teach and Prosper Millions ...
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Monday, November 30, 2009
AMIABLE
Time flies away as we visit to the Goh Tong Memorial Park, Genting Theme Park, play with Outdoor and Indoor Games, Sin Chew Cave Temple and of course the Casino...
We have a wonderful week spent together... The mist of Genting makes us synergized ... A happy vacation spent...
GENTING HIGHLANDS
Friday, September 18, 2009
OCCASION'S
September 19 th is a very happy day for all of the Malaysians.. Regardless they are Malay, Chinese or Indian. It is even a holiday time for every1.
As for indians, today is the first day of Navarathiri... a pooja starts for thrimurthi Indian Godness Workship for a week. A noble week for the Indians around the world..
As for Chinese, today is the first day after a month of Ghost Festive Celebration. A month that will start and lead till the next year festive will take over. A new beginning with the ancestor blessing have immerged for them.
For the Malays and Muslims, today is the last day of fasting ... as from the evening the noble month of Ramadhan will come to an end and the festive month of Syawal will take over the joyment after puasa.
Basically, it shows that Today is a good start for a mutual day of celebration for all the Religions.. Even for my dear students, the Semester break have started. An enjoyable time to relax and have fun has began......
Sop, i would like to take this opportunity to wish every1 a happy festive season and a happy holiday with your loved ones guys.....
As for indians, today is the first day of Navarathiri... a pooja starts for thrimurthi Indian Godness Workship for a week. A noble week for the Indians around the world..
As for Chinese, today is the first day after a month of Ghost Festive Celebration. A month that will start and lead till the next year festive will take over. A new beginning with the ancestor blessing have immerged for them.
For the Malays and Muslims, today is the last day of fasting ... as from the evening the noble month of Ramadhan will come to an end and the festive month of Syawal will take over the joyment after puasa.
Basically, it shows that Today is a good start for a mutual day of celebration for all the Religions.. Even for my dear students, the Semester break have started. An enjoyable time to relax and have fun has began......
Sop, i would like to take this opportunity to wish every1 a happy festive season and a happy holiday with your loved ones guys.....
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
LIFE'S JOURNEY
Life is a journey which have ups and down. Whereby I am a sailor; sailing in the widespread ocean with guiding light by God.. " The Almighty"..
As for me, successful life does not mean dollar and cents only... Achieving the impossibilities in life and overcoming our boundaries will broaden up a success level of a person. I am into it !
I believe God have a plan for us to accomplish in this world. I realize mine and working towards it. In my journey, I juz wanna help and nourish as much as flower's as I can in the Garden of Friendship... either my buddies, my relations or my dearest students.
Stepping into the world of career from being a business lady to a teacher and lecturer is juz a beginning for me. In the Gods Eden Garden, I am still a beginner ... a little student starting to crawl the finger's the new world so called Achievement...
All this Achievement will only take place if I can only plant and seed the garden well.. My believe are simple nor matter what skin color u are as long u are my fren... nor u treat me as an enemy but for me if u need a help juz look for me.. I will be there for u alwiz...
Hoping that I can be a better Gardener in the Eden Garden of Almighty !
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